Personal Adventures in Dating


Incompatibility Only on a Date

There are people who cannot talk to each other for more than a few minutes before they want to scream or leave the area, and...


Ready for Adventure

The world of dating can be a frightening landscape, but there are many times when it results in a smoother path into a better future...


Never Discount A Rejected Date From Your Past

As people age, they grow and learn in many different ways. Some of them are more committed to issues than they were before, and others...


Ending a Date Early

There are few people who want to admit a date is a failure, but it is generally obvious to both people when it is not...


Finding a Surprise Date

People have many different social connections through family, friends, and work. They might not realize just how many people they have met until they run...


Overcoming Incompatibility

When people meet and go on a first date, incompatibility between them will seldom be resolved. A person who realizes every date they go on...


Dressing Up or Down

The awkwardness of dating is often due to the fact that people are not quite sure what to expect, so it is important to keep...


Learning to be a Better Date

Some daters find that their life is not quite what they imagined it to be, and they are disappointed to find they rarely get a...

Many couples hit it off on the first date, and they continue to see each other until they form a relationship. Unfortunately, some people cannot get through drinks when they meet for their first date. These people are incompatible, but that does not necessarily mean they have nothing in common. It may be that neither of them is really interested in meeting someone new, or they may simply have issues with the other person.

One of the major issues when meeting a new person is their personal habits, and these include items such as how they eat or drink, or cracking their knuckles. These are habits that have developed over a lifetime, and many people see no need to break them. A person who has been raised with strict table manners will not appreciate someone who has few or none, and this can cause them to be annoyed with the other person. The inverse is true, and they may think the person they are having dinner with is too fussy about arbitrary rules. In any case, this particular couple would be completely incompatible and should avoid another date.