The world of dating can be a frightening landscape, but there are many times when it results in a smoother path into a better future for two people. It can take a great deal of courage to go out with someone new. Many singles experience anxiety due to a series of dates that did not work out, but getting past that is important. It may seem ridiculous to think that dating should be framed as a time when a person should be ready for adventure, but that attitude can make the difference between success and failure.
Compatibility is often what people truly seek in a relationship, but it is not always readily apparent. For two singles on their first date, the abysmal truth is that they could see nothing in each other that is remotely compatible. One may be very laid back, and the other could be very anxious about everything. That alone can ruin the date for both of them. They might think it would be best not to try and second date, and many of them would be right.
Going out on an adventure implies there may be hardships ahead, but there can also be fun puzzles to solve. Learning something about another person and asking the right questions can be interesting. Looking at a date as a potential friend instead of a potential romantic partner may also help. Seeking something other than an immediate relationship can lead to good times with someone new.
Few singles leave the world of dating without scars or at least a few stories to tell. These are the stuff of legend as they move through life, and those with an adventurous attitude might find they have the best stories of all. While waiting for the right partner to come along, enjoying those adventures can make the world of singles a more interesting place.
